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What I’ve Learned About Life from My Cat

What I’ve Learned About Life from My Cat

They say pets make life better. I say—my cat turned me into a philosopher.

Her name is Miso, like the soup—warm, unpredictable, and sometimes gives you the side-eye. She's small, grey, and walks around like she pays the rent and I’m just the live-in help. But over time, I've realized: behind those judgmental stares and dramatic yawns, Miso’s been dropping life lessons like she’s running her own TED Talk.

So here it is—what I’ve learned about life from my cat.

  1. Nap Like You Mean It
    Miso can fall asleep anywhere. Sunbeam? Perfect. Laundry basket? Even better. She doesn’t just nap—she commits to it. Watching her unapologetically snooze through my Zoom calls taught me the power of rest. If life gets overwhelming, just curl up and nap it out. The world can wait. Rest is not laziness; it’s the foundation of resilience. Miso's naps remind me to recharge without guilt, to step away and find quiet in a world that never stops buzzing.
  2. Demand What You Want (Then Act Like You Didn’t Want It Anyway)
    She screams for treats, then sniffs them like she’s above it all. Honestly? Iconic. Miso taught me that asking for what you want is powerful—but changing your mind is even more powerful. Be vocal, be bold, but keep 'em guessing. Life isn’t about pleasing everyone; it’s about expressing your needs unapologetically and understanding that you reserve the right to pivot. That kind of confidence? Totally feline.
  3. Independence Is Not a Phase, It’s a Vibe
    Unlike dogs, Miso doesn’t need you—she chooses you. And that’s powerful. She’s a reminder that being independent and needing space is not something to apologize for. Set boundaries. Find your window perch. Enjoy your own company. Miso doesn’t follow anyone’s schedule but her own, and she still gets love and admiration. There’s beauty in being self-sufficient. In fact, there’s power in it.
  4. Find Joy in the Small Stuff
    Whether it’s a crumpled paper ball, a cardboard box, or a speck of dust she swears is alive—Miso finds entertainment everywhere. Her enthusiasm for the little things is a daily reminder to pause, smile, and maybe swat at something just for fun. Life doesn’t always have to be big and bold. Sometimes, joy lives in the tiniest of corners—you just have to look down, be curious, and maybe give it a gentle paw.
  5. Don’t Rush for Anyone
    Miso walks like she’s strolling through a Parisian art museum with no deadlines. She’s never in a hurry—and guess what? She still gets fed, cuddled, and admired like royalty. Maybe we could all benefit from slowing down. Life isn’t a race—it’s a very luxurious catwalk. That unhurried energy teaches me patience. It teaches me that I don’t need to chase every trend, rush every answer, or hurry every meal. Good things come to those who stroll.
  6. Sometimes, You Just Gotta Knock Stuff Off the Shelf
    Metaphorically, of course. (Or not.) When things feel stuck or boring, maybe you do need to shake things up. Take a risk. Push a boundary. Knock over a plant. Be messy. Be bold. Be a little unpredictable. Miso reminds me that chaos isn't always bad. Sometimes, it wakes us up. Sometimes, it reveals what really matters—and what was just sitting there gathering dust.
  7. Presence Over Productivity
    This one took time. I’d be hunched over my laptop while Miso just stared at me, quietly judging. But when she climbs onto my lap, flops across the keyboard, and demands attention, she’s reminding me: the world won’t end if you stop working for five minutes. Life is happening right now, in the soft brush of fur against your leg or the quiet purr under your hand. That’s presence. That’s peace.
  8. Love Doesn’t Always Look Like What You Expect
    Miso shows affection in her own weird ways. A headbutt. A long blink. Sitting three feet away but still keeping an eye on me. It’s not over-the-top, but it’s constant. She’s there. And that quiet, consistent presence reminds me that love isn’t always loud. Sometimes it’s simply about being near.

Final Thought:


Living with Miso is like having a tiny, four-legged life coach who sheds everywhere and occasionally bites my ankle. But honestly? I wouldn’t trade her for anything. She’s taught me that life isn’t just about being productive—it’s about being present, taking your space, and always, always chasing the red dot.

So here’s to our pets—the unexpected philosophers, therapists, and chaos agents of our lives. May we all live a little more like them.

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